Hello Lovely ❤ I’m mistress alexia  I’m  looking for my loyal submissive partner that is ready to do all I ask! Obeying and Listening to every rules and want to have a good time, if you're into light pain or extreme too, facesitting domination, pegging and basically any fetish you have or wanting to try out! This is the part where I have to use my brain to try and get you to part with your hard earned money to see my flaps, which is a task in itself because usually I use my tits for convincing. Now I could sit here and feed you a load of BS about how I have best looking pussy on. but the truth is it resembles a lasagna that’s been punched with brutal force, and don’t even get me started on my walnut looking anus 🥹. Edible though, right? 

I might not be able to offer you grade A pussy but what I do offer is a mix of humorous and seductive content.

I am a caring and creative Mistress, with a wide range of interests. Often mischievous and inventive in my approach to kink, with a sadistic sense of humour and an open mind, finding allure in the most unusual and ‘weird’ requests.

As your Mistress, I can be soft and sensual, or cruel and sadistic – this all depends on you. Are you a novice who requires a strict but gentle Mistress… or a well seasoned pervert who delights in misbehaving, just to feel the stroke of my cane on your skin? Maybe even a little slut, who would like some training so you may one day graduate into a full service whore?

Let’s explore your fantasies together, whatever they are. Wouldn’t you much rather find out in reality, then live another second wondering all that might be?

My Approach to BDSM

From the moment I start the design process of your session, choose an outfit and prepare our play-space, to the way we finish our time together, I like ensuring each encounter you have with me feels special and fun.

For this, each time is carefully planned and tailored to fit your favourite fetishes and kinky needs, taking into account all that you’ve told me about yourself.

Part of the thrill of BDSM is knowing that you are under my full control, that we will be delving into each and every one of your kinks, and over time pushing your limits (if you are brave enough for it!) and you will be released with a smile on your face and fond memories to remember as you walk down the street.

 

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Dedicated furniture is available for me to strap

you to, hang you from or bend you over. Of

course, timid types who insist on 'no pain' are

also catered for here. Worship and grovelling

at my high heels and hemline is allowed, be

my dog, my coat hook, my toilet, my thing to

fuck or face to sit on. There are loads of

weirdly useful things you can do for my

amusement whilst escaping the stroke of my

crop. Tying you up and getting you aroused

and frustrated is another domination technique

that I employ.

Maybe you love the whip or a strap - or even

better, a cane. I shall not be swinging that

around like a bunch of daffodils, I administer

with purpose. Many CP lovers appreciate a

'warming up' with a spanking before taking

counted cane strokes. Fear not. I also have a

paddle or two and the option of a safe word

should you need it.

There are three types of limits:

 Universal Limits: Things about which there is no question. It's not a choice; it's the law. Any sexual activity with children, animals, people mentally/physically unable to consent, or people who have withdrawn consent is always out of bounds.

Hard Limits: Things she will not do because she has personal/moral/health reasons and the limit is never going to change. For many women things like scat, urine drinking, unprotected sex with strangers, cutting, branding or permanent scarification are hard limits.

Soft Limits: Things she is saying she doesn't want to try or do, largely because she has never done them and she has a fear based response to them. After the relationship develops more trust and power some of these limits may be stretched and challenged.Once you have established her limits, you can proceed to come to an agreeable set of do's and don'ts, ideas and guiding philosophies to make her training and life with you successful.

Making a training plan 

“Submissives fantasize Master's plan. One of the things that drives the desire of a submissive woman to serve is the freedom i finds in a slave. I am liberated from making the decisions and taking the responsibility for what happens.One of the things that drives the heart of a master is the desire to be the responsible one. His need to guide, to initiate and to bear both the responsibility and pride of a task well-done is what encourages him to continue with the effort. The basis of that power exchange is trust.Training is the period of time where the submissive partner learns to trust you. The more you have a clearly articulated plan for me training and your time together the easier it will be for me to relax and put yourself  in my hands.While training can seem unpredictable and challenging to a sub, you don't want it to become so overwhelming that I’ll  withdraws from you. The best way to help me is to share your plans with me up front. This helps me see you are following a well-known methodology and not just "making stuff up."If you are a younger (under 30) Dom, you definitely need to show you know what you're doing as there is a bias in the submissive world towards older, more experienced Doms.Sit down “with your sub and explain the plan. Make sure you pick a clear start date and an absolute end date for the period of training. The recommended time for initial training is 2 weeks to 1 month of cohabitation, or 4 weeks to 8 weeks for session work.each session last 3 hours. Both the open and close date should be marked with a small ritual or ceremony (it can be a private one between you both, or one with friends) that shows a clear beginning and end.” And if you would choose a date and wont meet up it would be better no to text me as I hate disappointment and time wasting 

“Training time is not what the rest of the relationship is going to be like. It is just the time when the patterns and expectations of the relationship are magnified in order for them to become a life habit. Knowing there is an end to training time will be a help to both of you because it is a tiring phase when you must both be vigilant and address every joy and error.”

Appropriate Attitude

“While "bratting" may be fun on the Internet or for people who aren't committed to one another, a sub who is well-trained will recognize that for the immaturity it is and not fall into such a trap.A good submissive has an attitude made of equal parts of humility, desire, gratitude and pleasantness. She doesn't need to "brat" for attention because she gets enough attention for pleasing her master and has learned to make his pleasure her pleasure as well.A submissive should speak in soft tones. Her words should be gracious and respectful at all times. At no time should a submissive use curse words or foul language. The only exception to that is if you wish her to talk dirty to you during sex. If that is the case, make it clear she is only permitted to do so when you give her permission. Your submissive's speech and attitude should reflect her acceptance of her place in your heart and under your guidance.”

Physical Submission

“Your submissive is turning her body and will over to you in every way. The two methods to solidify that gift are physical and sexual submission. Physical refers to your domination of her body as a vessel of her mind and will. Sexual is the domination of her body for pleasure and intimate connection. Spanking is the primary way you will teach and control your sub during training.”

Other training involves 

“Cutting, branding or tattooing.”

“Pony or pet training ”

Humiliation and Objectification

Public practices

Domestic Service

Chastity

Intercourse and Orgasm Denial”

Anal service 

Oral service 

Sexual submission 

Erotic  spanking 

Maintenance spanking 

Punishment spanking 

Medical play is one of my specialities and I

have a dedicated fetish clinic called the 'White Room' where I perform weird and cruel

operations and examinations on visiting fetish patients.

I’m also into toilet play   ,feminization,orgasm denial, worship & face sitting,femdom worship, bondage, chastity, strap on , role play, & feet ..

Other Fetishes You May Wish To Indulge In

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Anal Play

Armpit/Sweat Fetish

Bastinado

Boot Fetish

Blackmail

Breath Play/Asphyxiation

Ballbusting

Bondage

Caging/Confinement

Chastity

Cock Milking

Cross Dressing

Canning

Cock & Ball Torture

Couples

Castration Fantasy

Choking

Corporal Punishment

Degradation

Double/Multi Domme

Domestic Servitude

Dinner Dates

E-Stim/Electric Play

Edging

Financial Domination

Forced Feminization

Foot Fetish/Worship

Face Slapping

Flogging/Whipping

Gags

Gas Masks

Hand/Nails Fetish

Humiliation

Human furniture

High Heels

Keyholding

Lingerie/Latex/Leather

Leg Worship

Mummification

Mind Fuck/Play

Needle Play/Piercings

Nipple Torture

Orgasm Control/Denial

Physical Humiliation

Pony Play

Pet/Puppy Play

Post Orgasm Torture

Rubber Fetish

Role Play

Ruined Orgasms

Rope

Shoe Fetish/Worship

Slave Training

Spanking/Paddling

Strap-on

Scratching

Shopping Trips

Slut Training

Spitting

Stockings/Suspenders

Sadistic Domination

Sensual Domination

Silk/Satin

Small Penis Humiliation

Sissification

Suspensin

Toilet humiliation (drinking of Pee and poop)

Tickling

Tie and Tease

Trampling

Verbal Humiliation

Wax Play

Whipping

Let’s talk about tribute 

A tribute is not a payment We need to get something straight. A tribute is a form of showing respect and admiration to your superior, it is not a payment for a session

or even my time. Anything you get as a result of a tribute is a bonus. Tribute to please me. Tribute because your cash belongs in my wallet. Tribute because my needs, are more important than yours. Don't tribute because you want to get off and disappear. You are not paying me to cum, you're paying me to add some meaning to your pathetic life.

 SAFEWORDS

1) slave is allowed safewords in all activities when necessary and trusts implicity in Mistress to respect the use of said safewords.

2) If a condition arises in which the slave needs to use a safeword, Mistress will assses the situation and determine an appropriate course of action.

Caution: YELLOW, Stop: RED

3) Once slave has recovered, the issues causing the use of the safeword will be discussed and a mutual arrangement for the future will be agreed upon.

4) slave agrees to feel pain, which is part of the training process, and the training cannot be done without it.